If someone moved on from you quickly, please understand this…
A person who can be in a relationship with you for a decent length of time and then move on to someone else that quickly without even considering how you feel, or how painful that is for you, is a person with wounds and insecurities that are so deep they’d do anything not to face them.
They'd do anything to prevent the pain from those wounds surfacing!
They will have wounds that are so incredibly deep, and insecurities and fears that are so enormous, but that’s not for you to carry.
That is their burden to carry!
Those demons belong to them, and they will live with those demons until they one day decide to face them.
Believe me when I tell you this, but karma definitely has a strange and sometimes mysterious way of visiting those who tried to escape it.
They will face their karma, but that’s not for you to hold onto or to give your energy to.
You have to accept what’s happened, you have to allow yourself to sit with your pain and allow yourself to feel it, but you also have to be defiant in knowing that you will heal from the pain they left you with, and that you will move on from that pain because you deserve so much better than what they gave you and what they left you with.
You deserve better than someone who could invest that much time into a relationship with you, and then just discard you by moving onto someone else like you never even mattered at all.
The person who did this to you, is not a normal, healthy functioning person.
They have their own healing and their own demons that they need to face, and one day they will be forced to face them because they can't run forever.
And the truth is, that as painful as this might feel right now, this is honestly the best thing that could have happened for you.
Because you can now allow that door to completely shut, knowing that what they did is on them, and was because of them and what they haven’t faced about themselves.
And once you heal, you can then allow the right door to open to the right person who will respect you, who will be loyal and committed to you, and who will appreciate every single part of you.
The fact that they were able to move on so quickly and so carelessly has nothing at all to do with you, but rather it has everything to do with them and their lack of empathy and compassion about what they did.
It’s about their own wounds that they need to rely on these type of self-sabotaging behaviours to avoid facing at all costs.
It has nothing to do with you, your worth, or the value of your love!
Allow you heart to heal, because you honestly deserve someone better than the person that they could ever be, and you are worthy of having your heart feel safe and protected by it being placed in the right hands…
~ Mark Smith