A narcissist doesn’t give closure.
They leave you questioning everything while they move on like nothing ever happened.
One day, they’re your dream—charming, attentive, making you feel special.
The next, they’re cold, distant, and gone.
No explanation. No apology. No accountability.
And there you are—
Replaying the chaos.
Grieving what felt real.
Blaming yourself for their cruelty.
But here’s the truth:
Closure would require empathy.
Accountability.
Honesty.
And narcissists avoid all of it.
So instead, they ghost.
They discard.
They rewrite the story and cast you as the villain.
While you’re still trying to breathe through the wreckage.
But the lack of closure is not your failure.
It’s their reflection—not yours.
They couldn’t give you peace because they never had any to begin with.
Let that sink in.
Sometimes, closure doesn’t come from them.
It comes from you—
Standing in the truth they tried to erase.